Holding back ejaculation is just another material manifestation – but without the physical thrill of it

No matter if you call it love or sex,those emotions will have aphysical manifestation.

No matter if you call it love or sex, in a material world, those emotions have a physical expression. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

PART 1:
Will a computer become anything else than that, just because you do not turn it on? No. It remains the same. And a leg, for example, remains physical even though you deny using parts of it.

Will a flower seed become a carrot seed, if you plant it among carrots? No. You are fooling yourself.

Will the instincts that result in a hard penis, become anything else than what they are, if you try to withhold the ejaculation? No. You are just avoiding the relief of going with the flow.

Trying to change or transcend something enhances the the belief that it is possible to be and have more than that which is one.

You may think that using tantra and similar techniques to hold back ejaculation results in a spiritual transformation. On the contrary. By denying the body the pleasure of letting go, you enhance the belief, that physicality is something and spirituality is nothing.

Besides, it is only in a world where there seems to be more than one that change is possible, and spirituality is that which is one. Since it is formless and therefore endless, a world where there seems to be more than one, therefore, is an illusion. In other words, changes seem to establish the fantasy of being someone in a world where there seems to be more than one as real and that which is one as unreal. Read more about tantra in Peace is all there is when you do not believe in something.

Since spirituality is formless, it is endless. Consequently, you are either spiritual or nothing. The latter is the case if you appear to have a shape. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

If you do not believe to be someone in a physical world, you do not want to change, transcend or transform anything there. Nor to stop yourself from the thrill of having a physical orgasm. It is as unreal as Santa Claus bringing presents to all the good children. Yet it is fun pretending to be physical (read more about that here).

In the framework of this game, it is the nature of physics that the sun warm makes you warm and water makes you wet. No degree of personal control can change that. Nor can it changed physical needs. And since nobody has forced you into this game of being somebody, it is evident that you want to participate. So why not honour your desire and give it your best shot?

If you give it your best shot as someone in a world where there seems to be more than one you are surprised because what you get is nothing. Being astonished, though, requires more than one and without something to hide there is no more than that which is one, this is not possible to, nor to believe you are someone.

When you pursue your physical desire for sex in a tangible and horny way, the physical thrill of an orgasm is incredible. Especially because it is extended by the empty breath that makes the whole body quiver of joy, so you feel revitalised and not emptied after ejaculation. If that, by the way, is triggered by fantasy or something perceived to be real does not matter. It is all make-believe.

Read more about the empty breath in hack #5.3 ´The empty breath´ and the bliss of not believing to be someone.

APPENDIX:
Sex is such a deep desire that it must be an essential motivation for believing it is possible to be and have more than that which is one. Since this illusion, therefore, is founded on that which is one, an orgasm should not be stopped but enjoyed as a positive confirmation of oneness.


NOTE: This article is part of hack #1.2 You cannot change the world, but you can change your perception of it.

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