Peace is all there is, when you do not believe in something

Tantra sex is a way to cut away the longing for fulfillment. However to practice tantra sex is an excitement in itself, so the result will not be peace. But without excitement you have no need for a climax, and so you will not command the body to produce an orgasm. Consequently there is no need to practise tantra sex. Without excitement you will never be disappointed.

Without the longing for excitement, the moment is good enough as it is – and that is so peaceful, that there is no need for commanding the body to produce an orgasm. This is not a result of Tantra sex or anything else. Peace is not a result of something, but the lack of believing in something. The image is grabbed from the web

PART 1:
To indulge in excitement is to escape from the present, as it takes more than one to feel excited, and there is no more than that which is one since it is formless and therefore endless. Besides that, excitement is always about something you are looking forward to in the future, imagining what it will be like if you, for example, a certain man/woman will love you. Should that happen, you start to imagine how exciting it will be to move together, have babies, a holiday cottage and whatnot.

Along the way, you may also imagine how excited your parents or friends will be for what you have achieved. But in reality, you have not achieved anything. That is why you keep looking for new ways to get excited, instead of realising that no matter how exciting you get, you do not feel at peace.

There is no excitement in peace because you do not look forward to something new when at peace. Excitement is imagination about something, that will fulfil you in the future. Peace though is not an imagination, and it cannot come in the future, neither can it fulfil you. Not to worry. There is no need for fulfilment because peace is one perpetual present – and that is all there is.

If it seems that this part of the article misses an end, it could be because peace never cares to finish anything, as it is that which is one, and oneness never ends.

Esoteric techniques like meditations are for those who care about how their person appear in the world. Using techniques like that are just a more refined version of the old desire to be the ruler of the world. But if it is an illusion, which is the idea behind most esoteric techniques, no appearance in the universe – including chakra, kundalini and whatnot – is real. Neither is any healing of anything in the world.

Esoteric techniques like meditations are for those who care about how they appear in a world where there seems to be more than one. Using techniques like that are just a refined version of the old desire to the master of the universe. But if the world is an illusion, which is the idea behind most esoteric techniques, there is nothing to rule and no appearance in the world – including chakra, kundalini and whatnot – is real. Neither is any healing, transformation and whatnot. The image is grabbed from the web

PART 2:
If you have the need to use tantra in order to not get an orgasm or use other techniques like meditation to stop your desire for the peak experiences of a world where there seems to be more than one, you are very far from returning to that which is you, because if that is what you want, you do not care if you have an orgasm or any other experience of climax in such a world. Consequently, there is no need to avoid anything.

Tantra, meditation, chanting, tai chi and similar esoteric ways of controlling what you appear to be are for those who want to escape their self-hatred by enforcing an appearance of being spiritual – just like the bodybuilder forces changes in the body to escape the feeling of being wrong.

But no technique is needed to return to that which is you, since no return is needed, as that which is you is no different from the formlessness of that which is one, and as formlessness is endless there is no more than the formlessness of oneness. Hence it is not possible to leave it, so if you appear to be in a world where there seems to be more than one, it is not real. In other words, there is nothing to leave but the belief that it is.

A relaxed body has no need of the climax of an orgasm – but a tense body has and if you believe this body to be yours, so do you. If you do not believe the body to be you, you do not need to identify with its needs and so you are free to to follow that which brings peace.

A relaxed body has no need for the physical climax of orgasm – but a tense body has, and if you believe to be in it, it must be tense in order to confirm this belief. But if you do not believe to be in it – or anywhere else for that matter – there is nobody with a need to make it real. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

PART 3:
A physical orgasm is not gonna happen in a relaxed body but a tight one. This tightness is often caused by the control carried out to get what you want in the way you envision it should be, which seems very important when not looking for peace but excitement.

In other words, orgasm is only possible because you believe to be someone in a body and want to have this belief confirmed to be real through the excitement of an orgasm.

When you are in a state of indifference to the apparent differences in a world where there seems to be more than one, which you cannot enter yourself through meditation and other techniques of self-control but by going with the flow of one or more of the duality hacks,* as they undo the belief in being or having a self, experiencing the sensation of an orgasm is no more sensational than any other experience.

Thus the body is not in need of producing a specific physical climax. In other words, there is no ejaculation.

This is also what you want to confirm if you try to avoid having an orgasm via tantra or other so-called spiritual techniques, as there would be no reason to avoid it, if not believing to be someone in a body.

Hence not wanting to be someone in a body – whether that appears to be physical and whatnot – will dissolve the need for a bodily climax, because only those believing to be in a body need it to produce a specific reaction in order to be confirmed in being there.


*) You can, for example, apply hack #2.1 Everything experienced is a symbol of life to become nobody. Be aware though that seeing everything as symbols of life, you stop being somebody. Thus there is nobody to find peace, for example, through meditation or a good sleep nor to find an outlet for anger in love or sex. Fortunately, it is not needed, because to be nobody is peace. This does not mean, that feelings of anger, desire and whatnot do not pop up, but since there is not somebody in charge, the feelings belong to nobody. Thus nobody is shaped by them.


NOTES:

This article is part of hack #2.4 Peace of non-duality versus the excitement of duality. It is not meant to promote that orgasm, sex or anything else is wrong. Only if you believe a world where there seems to be more than one is real do you need to appoint something as wrong.

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