CANCELLEX Every moment is the perfect moment

If you experience a flow of beauty, love, sex or colors in this pic totally depends on the perception you have fabricated of yourself as a person. But no matter what you perceive, if you include it all, the moment of watching this pic is perfect – nothing is wrong or missing. Consequently you need no more and therefore are ready for that which is one.

Whether you experience love, sex, or the beauty of a sunset in this image totally depends on how you have conditioned yourself as a person. But no matter what you experience, if it is included as it is, the moment of experiencing this image is perfect – nothing is wrong or missing. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

Exclusiveness is imperfection, and inclusiveness is perfection. This does not mean that everything included is perfect. None of the parts is perfect, but when all thoughts and feelings about reading this, for example, are included, it is a perfect moment.

This is not to say you must include every tiny detail of what you read, but that you include everything as you perceive it. So-called negative thoughts are included as well as the so-called positive ones. Both past and future are included.* But if you, out of habit, exclude something, you do not have to correct your routine. You just included your pattern of excluding.

To make long short, if you do not try to escape the moment as it is by excluding what you judge to be wrong, you have no needs, and so the moment feels perfect. This does not mean you may not crave for something, but that you are not attached to getting it.


There is no more than the formlessness of oneness since it is formless and therefore endless. Thus a world where there seems to be more than one is not real, regardless of how the moment appears to be. However, while you seem to be someone in a virtual world, it feels better to have a perfect moment. But ultimately, nothing will help you return to the formlessness of oneness because you have not left it.

Since it takes more than one to leave something, it is impossible to leave that which is one. Yet it seems possible to imagine it. Doing that, nobody can help you return to the formlessness of oneness because they are part of your imagination. Like within the context of the imagination, when what you appear to be ´there´ is having a dream, you are not going anywhere because you are in your bed.


If you include all the different elements in whatever you see, you see nothing disturbing. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

It is not (good) enough, or there must be more are the two common mantras of the seeker – and it is also the foundation the world is built on. No moment is not good enough as it is. Something has to be done about it to make it better. Love, for example, has to be more unconditional, pure or whatnot.

A perfect moment has no limitations, contrary to the popular idea of living in the now, which is something you forever can try to achieve but never obtain, as it is based on having to keep on excluding the past and the future.

A perfect moment can last a split second while you are saying »Fuck you« – or it can last an hour while you are having a daydream about tomorrow or the whole night being with your lover. It includes the past as well as the future. Actually, including is what it is all about – or rather not to exclude, as that means everything is included.

So if you do not exclude anything at this moment, no matter if it contains thoughts about the past and the future or if they are positive or negative, then there is nothing to define what and where you are, which is such a relief.

Meditation or other techniques supposed to make you spiritual will not get you there because those ways are about excluding something, so a state of mind can be obtained in the future and not in this very moment. Hence they are making separation real and, therefore, you as someone special in a world of duality. In other words, the so-called spiritual techniques prolong the agony of being someone definitive instead of undoing the belief in being this.

The only reason you choose to block out the present by excluding part of it and space out in ideas of a better world to come is that you think there is more than this moment. And your search will go on until you acknowledge you are mistaken.

*) If you have conditioned yourself within the concepts of living in the now, you may think a perfect moment is a point squeezed in between the past and the future. However, this idea of living in the now is based on exclusion, whereas a perfect moment is inclusive and therefore includes both the past and the future. A perfect moment may last a split second, or as long as a kiss lasts, or a daydream lasts. There are no rules but to be inclusive. Should you forget that, you just include your forgetfulness.

NOTE: This article is part of hack #3.1 Every moment is the perfect moment.


You may seem to climb around naked in the woods in your dream, but you are not climbing anywhere. You are doing nothing. You are asleep in your bed. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

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