+(+) Inclusion makes everything right

Defocusing may seem to space you out, so that you see new worlds within the world, which is a grand way

Defocusing may space you out, so that you automatically shift into automatic gear from where you intuitively do and say, what is in the best interest of everything that appears to be involved in the moment. Photo © Alexius Jorgensen.

If hack #3.2 Inclusiveness is a perfect moment about differences making no difference seems to make you a little spaced out, you are on the right track in regards to undoing the belief, that it is possible to be and have more than that which is one. Yet, you are not on the right track, if you space out on the way to pick up your kids from the kindergarten, as they require you to focus on differences, so that you can be more than them and guide them on the start of their journey in a world where there seems to be more than one.

Spaced out is just one side-effect of defocusing. Another one is clarity. When you are not focused on anything in particular, your mind is not busy discussing what is right and wrong, and so you intuitively do and say what is called for. Not because you know what to do or say, as that would require focus, but because you are in automatic gear in very much the same way as when you connect with the empty breath.*

Being in automatic gear multitasking is not a problem. In fact it seems to be the natural way to go, because you are not result-minded anymore.

But this is not a requirement for undoing your belief in a world where there seems to be more than one. Nothing but inclusion is needed. So if you are result-minded and feel guilty about it, you just include that. And as anything in a world where there seems to be more than one needs to be contrasted by something else in order to be experienced as something specific, process-minded and innocence are also included when you include result-minded and feeling guilty.

You do not have to be aware of this for the inclusion of a contrast to work, because the two opposing sides of a contrast are like two sides of the same coin, so the inclusion of one side includes them both.

As the sum of the two sides are nothing, since they cancel out each other when added together, and as this momentarily rubs off on other contrasts you are in state of not-knowing, which means there is nobody to judge anything in terms of good and bad – and so everything is fine as it is. That is why it is a perfect moment.


*) In hack #4-7, ´The empty breath´ and the bliss of not believing to be someone you can read more about the empty breath.


NOTE: This article is part of hack #3.2 Inclusiveness is a perfect moment.