(+) The belief in separation seems to hide there is no more than that which is one

The dream of a spiritual personality in a perfect balance body causing a constant state of bliss and tranquility, can only be upheld by closing your eyes for what you judge not to be perfect and peaceful. In other words, your dreams of perfection requires selected parts of the moment to be excluded. Hence you are fencing of the formlessness of that which is one, because since formlessness is endless it includes everything. The graphic is grabbed from the web.

In a relationship you establish special concepts and memories, so when you see something, that fits into what you have established as the right or wrong way to perceive the world, you can laugh or be upset together about how silly those are, who perceive the world in another way than you.

Common concepts of what is right or wrong is used in movies to manipulate us into thinking we feel something specific – just like certain concepts of the world may fool you into feeling your country or state of mind is the best.

When you do not believe all the concepts regarding for example New Year, you probably see that without this belief you do not feel differently in the new year. It is make-believe.

In other words, what you appear to feel, while watching a movie, is not based on the movie but past thoughts divided into what you judge as right and wrong. If you check what you actually feel, you are in most cases not touched by the movie at all. It is something you think. Likewise when you think you are attracted by a certain body type. The attraction is based on memories of something you have categorised as the right fit.

A perfect body cannot be felt, because there is no such thing. Yet the feeling of not being perfect can be felt, and as that feeling of frustration is the means to feel you are someone definitive, so though you may hide your frustrations, they serve you well, because being frustrated about not being perfect, the belief in separation and therefore you as someone definitive is enhanced. The graphic is grabbed from the web.

You wish you feel something in regards to seeing, what you judge as the perfect body, but you do not feel anything, as the idea of a perfect body is shallow. It is a thought construction of perfection from where the not so perfect parts of the body has been excluded.

To not see this deception, you imagine what you can do to the fragments of the body, you have judged to be perfect. Rules are established of how to interact, so you can hide, you have no feelings invested in the actual body – only in your imagination of it. The same applies if you are attracted to a specific type of personality.

If you are accused of being shallow in such a relation, you can prove your commitment to it by pointing to its rules, that you strictly are following. Yet it is nothing but thoughts used to avoid intimacy, as in its ocean the believe in separation, which is the basis for a world where there seems to be more than one, will go down the drain, so that there is no belief hiding, there is no more than that which is one.

NOTE: This article is the intro to hack #3.3 To include is to not exclude.