It is NOT about making a difference

Updated December 3, 2021

When you do not look for appearances, but that what makes it possible to experience them, you see that the apparent difference between your appearance and others makes no difference. The graphic is grabbed from the web.

When you do not look for appearances but that which makes it possible to experience them, you see that the apparent difference between you and others makes no difference. We are all a symbol of that which cannot appear, namely the formlessness of oneness. The graphic is grabbed from Ello.

Those gathering in groups of nationalism, capitalism, socialism, or another ism tend to manifest their specific group by excluding everything, not in line with their philosophy.

An ism starts by dividing the world into right and wrong and then eliminate everything judged to be wrong from the followers of the doctrine by projecting it onto other groups, which are seen as evil, as it is often perceived to be a fight between good and evil.

When the fight is over, the winning part claims to be the good ones. By doing the right thing, we have established our part of the world as the best, they say. But it only seems so because they have projected the worst in themselves onto what appears different from them in the world.

But Alexius’ Duality Hacks are not a new ism where you have to change or get rid of something to become better. There is no goal but to undo the belief in duality, as without it, you cannot be defined as someone definitive.

When Henry Ford invented a faster vehicle than a horse-driving carriage, it was not just an improvement of the old type of transportation. Instead, he surpassed it and developed a new way that was much faster.

Meditation progresses at the speed of a horse-driving carriage. This is because it is based on the idea that excluding something bad results in something good. But, unfortunately, there is always more to exclude. So you are on an endless quest to get better. On the other hand, applying Alexius’ Duality Hacks, you do not need to become perfect because they are based on inclusiveness. In other words, you are good enough as you are.

Nowadays are not for excluding the past and the future in order to live in the now, but to include everything, because life is not exclusive. The graphic is grabbed from the web.

You do not get to live in the now by excluding the past and the future because life is inclusive. The graphic is grabbed from Ello.

In the context of this article, Alexius’ Duality Hacks are about undoing the belief in separation by including the opposing parts of the contrasts making up duality, such as the past and the future or good and bad. Including them does not require any changes of what and where you appear to be. But that you include the beauty and ugliness of this. If you fail, you include your imperfection. And if you forget that, you include it when you remember it.

In other words, inclusiveness is not about being perfect but about including the moment as it is. You do not have to do it in a particular position or with special people in unique surroundings. Should there be something, you are unwilling to include, you include your unwillingness. You cannot go wrong by being inclusive, not even if you forget it, because if so, you include your forgetfulness.

If you begin to include these letters, they start to blur. Eventually, there is not something specific to see. Hence there does not appear to be something hiding the formlessness of oneness.

Inclusiveness is that which is you
To be inclusive, you must start by acknowledging the apparent differences of the world – otherwise, you have nothing to include. So, for example, to experience something as good, you must exclude its opposite, bad, from your awareness, so evil becomes the background that highlights goodness – just like you exclude the white background that contrasts these black letters to read this article.

Next, you include what you excluded. In the context of reading this article, you fully bring back the white background into your awareness. This inclusion makes it impossible to focus on the black letters, wherefore there is no article to read. In other words, by including the excluded, the opposite sides of a polarity cancel out each other as something specific. Consequently, there is nothing specific to experience nor a definitive experiencer. That is, of course, if you go all the way and, in the context of this example, totally include the white background or the black letters.

It is not about making the personality better, transform it or doing something at all, but about undoing the belief that you are someone definitive. The graphic is grabbed from Ello.

It is not about making the personality better, nor transforming it or doing the right thing. Instead, it is about undoing the belief in being someone definitive. The graphic is grabbed from Ello.

Most likely, you do not go all the way at once. No worries. Time is an illusion. Besides, it is not about perfection. You do not even have to be aware of both sides of a contrast to include it entirely. You can include the part of the contrast you are conscious about. For example, if these black letters are wholly included, their background – whether you are aware of it or not – is also included because everything comes in pairs in a world of duality. Therefore, since it becomes impossible to focus on the letters distinctive features, they become meaningless. The same applies to including pain, for example.

When something loses its distinctive features, it cannot affirm the belief in separation, wherefore the suffering caused by that belief fades out. However, it does not mean that the appearance of you as someone definitive also fades out. It probably remains the same.

No pain no gain, only applies if you want to be and have more than that which is you.

No gain without pain means that you cannot be or have more than that which is One without pain because without suffering, you do not feel you are someone.

But it means that pain does not have to be replaced by relief because you do not perceive these feelings to be separated but together. Consequently, there is no relief to wait for and, therefore, no problem to solve by searching for something. In other words, your problems contain the solution.

Nothing can be experienced without a contrast. So if you devote yourself so much to a problem that there is nothing but that, it cannot be experienced as a problem anymore. But it is a prerequisite for this to work that you do not expect the pain to disappear magically. It is not the pain but your interpretation of it as something specific that disappears. That is why there is not something to cause suffering.

When the belief in being someone definitive is completely undone, whatever you believed to be is no more and never was, because formlessness is endless and therefore everything, so all there is no more than the formlessness of that which is one. The graphic is grabbed from the web.

When the belief in being someone definitive is undone, what and where you assumed to be does not seem to hide the formless of oneness is endless, thus everything. The graphic is grabbed from the web.

There is no transition from believing to be in a world where there seems to be more than one to having the belief entirely undone. However, this you will never know, because when the belief is undone, so are you. There is nothing but that which always was, is and will be: that which is one. And since it takes more than one to realise something, nobody knows oneness is formless, thus endless.

This is not a way to experience the formlessness of oneness. There is no such way. It cannot be experienced, as it takes more than one to be aware of something. But it is a way to see that there is no more than that which is One. This is what you realise when you do not perceive the apparently different experiences produced by the brain to make a difference.


NOTE: This article is part of hack #3.2 Inclusiveness is completeness.