Inclusion excludes the personality (upgraded)

The graphic is grabbed from Ello.

In order to win somebody else must lose, so that the looser can function as a contrast showcasing the winner. If this contrast, however, is included, the apparent difference between winning and loosing makes no difference, and as that momentarily rubs off on other contrasts there is nothing to serve as a background for the personality. Hence the belief in it as real is phased out as long as this moment, which is a state of not-knowing lasts – and it lasts until you want to know what and where you are.

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